I HAVE UPDATED THIS POST A LITTLE: I still live in Daleville, AL, home to Ft. Rucker Aviation -- helicopter headquarters of the Army. Married my fella from Ohio who followed me here and helped me in more ways than I can tell you while I went through the kidney crisis; I'm 51 yrs. old now, but I look pretty darn good for an old lady; mom to 2 boys who are adults (kinda); own 2 greyhounds, Murphy & Buster who were adopted from Ebro Race Track, Florida and an Old English Bulldog, Blaze...adopted from a US Army Soldier stationed at Ft. Benning; Alabama is still a very very hot state where the corn crop has literally burned before our eyes for the last 3 years. I sold the Z24 that was sitting in my driveway for the last 3 years. The firewall had been rusted out when I bought it -- and I didn't know and drove it all the way here from Ohio on the pothole filled interstate. When I had a little money, I did take it to the local guys to look at, but they said it would cost way more than what it was worth. Sold it to this really great couple from Georgia a few months ago. I was born in Germany and I am a US citizen. I sang in a collegiate choir for 7 years with little 18, 19 and 20 yr. old babies and even got asked out on a date by one of them (I didn't go -- married at the time, plus my oldest son would have had a stroke). My eyebrows are tatooed on. I got it done in 1999 after years of penciling them on like a 40's movie star or a hooker. My kids were horrified if I took them to school without them on. I taught junior high drama for 7 years at a Catholic school (what a trip -- I'm still recovering). I have been a Boy Scout leader for over 12 years (I did give it up last year after my son got his Eagle Scout badge). I met Robert Beltran (First Officer Chakotay) from Star Trek Voyager and John deLancie who played Q in Star Trek Next Generation at separate Sci-Fi conventions in Cleveland. I was dying of kidney disease. Now I have new kidney. My sister, J, donated on September 19, 2006 at University of Alabama at Birmingham Transplant Center. IT WAS A HUGE SUCCESS! Stayed in B-Town for several weeks going to see my fantastic doctors every day, doing labs, eating real food, like Chinese and Italian. Doing fabulous. Taking handfuls of meds everyday, but it's a small price to pay for being alive. As I said, formally married my guy from Ohio on August 23, 2008. It was a small wedding that was almost torpedoed by Tropical Storm Rita or whatever her name was. The power was out at the house for most of the day. Have you ever tried to put makeup on using candlelight and a flashlight?! Pretty much singed off whatever little hair I had left on the eyebrows and just about blinded myself from the reflection of the flashlight in the mirror! Was 45 minutes late to my own wedding and almost made my poor kid take the chance of jumping out of a speeding car hydroplaning on the highway rather than die with a terrified look on his face. After all the scares I had with him driving, that almost made the entire day! Less than half my guests made it because of the weather, but, boy, was it a great party! Life is great.
There were a couple of people who helped me out financially while I was down. My sister, K, helped out a lot. My mom was great during the 18 months I was out. Lots of people sent prayers, which also helped enormously. My dad came and brought me home from B-Town. He lives in Ohio and drove here just for that purpose. It was great, because I hadn't seen him for almost a year since we moved to Bama. My friend, Monica, called me every day. I had a lot of people thinking about me. I am eternally grateful to everyone.
The only really bad thing that happened during that time was that Gary got let go from his job at TRA aka Andrews Trucking the day after Thanksgiving. After getting their butts out of an audit fire with the DOT for their horrible safety record, they decided that they didn't like him anymore and let him go. The real reason is that he wanted all the drivers to drive within the laws...no speeding, off the road after the required 14 hours, keep accurate logs, etc. and these fine Christian folks decided they wouldn't do it because breaking the law was making them big buck...especially one particular owner/operator. These are the same wonderful people who would call me in Birmingham and tell me that they were doing a prayer circle for me that day. They waited until after the holiday when Gary came into work that Friday to tell him. We had just spent Thanksgiving Day so grateful for what we had...my health, Gary's dream job, surrounded by my family that I couldn't be with when I was married to the other one...and then that happened. No warning. No severance pay. Nothing. We were devastated. I wasn't working and only had my disability coming in. These people were so nice to us and then to do this... But, you know, everyone pays the piper eventually.